Thursday, December 10, 2009

Why do parents always assume that school's the only stress in a child's life?

Ok I am in matric and I do agree that studying is important and all but my mom is driving me nuts. It's all she ever talks about. And when I try to explain to her that school work is not the only stress in my life she asks what other stress there is. But I can't tell her.



My friend is pregnant and I'm helping her through that. I might be pregnant. And I'm still trying to juggle school with all of this.



Help.



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Here's the problem, communication with your mother!! You'd be surprised how much your mother probably would understand if you just took the time to share your feelings, and problems with her!!! Being possibly pregnant is a big thing, why weren't you using protection???? For a obviously smart girl to have unprotected sex, there is no excuse for that!!! Trust me when I tell you that everything you are doing will be put on hold, mayby even never happen if you have a baby at this point!! Sure you could go back in the future and finish, MAYBY, but for now life stops, because you have to make baby number one!! Please tell your mom, she can be your biggest support, yeah mayby she'll be mad at first, but thats only because she wants whats best for you, and having a baby right now is not it!! As far as your friend goes, it's nice to be there for her, but you need to worry about yourself, keep your boundries!! Call your mom! God Bless and Good Luck!



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parents usually have more serious problems and cant relate anymore, but then again if your pregnant that will be a serious problem for your mom in 9 months
In today's day and age, children are far more sophisticated than ever. There is way more stress and it will get worse. If you think you are pregnant go to a family planning clinic as soon as possible. Educate yourself about safe sex and STDs since you are sexually active. Don't stress out. When you know what your status is then deal with the next step. Remember, don't get overwhelmed and deal with one thing at a time. If you are pregnant talk to your mother. Seek guidance from a counselor at the clinic. good luck.
more of less i think they just don remember their youth cuz they are stuck in their little universe and don't think about whats really go on around them. rather they think about them selves and they stress and drink them selves into an ealry grave. theres not much to do to make them understand then get them to go to a therapist with you. it not the most rational thing to do but it works.



the whole thing with your friend being prego is be supportive and help her juggle her life. for you. you should go to a clinic and find out for your slef. this is a life changing thing. the child will either make you the person you wanna be or break you and then make you live hell as you have to force you self to find your self. hehhe now i'm 21 and i have two lil hell raisers its fun.
you should talk to her before she know it from other people.....just tell her the you made a mistake and your sorry....tell her also what happen to you on the couple days on your life....just explain everything to her and its possible she'll be mad at you and reprimand you...just listen to her even though you dont want to....its normal that she'll be angry with you but sooner on later she'll think that you are her daughter and you need her help....and hope she'll be okey with it......its not easy to do thisv but its the right thing to do.......just be strong .....challenges is part of life....good luck girl
School should be the ONLY stress in a child's life, education is the most important part of growing up, you may not see it now but in later life when you are the employee instead of the employer you will bitterly regret it. You may think your mother is driving you nuts but believe me she has only your best interests at heart. You may think it to be 'cool' and emulate your friends but secretly they are sniggering behind your back at your stupidity. Being at school and being pregnant is a disaster and you need help quickly, speak to your mother you may find her to be more sympathetic than you think
Talk to you mom about this.
First of all, you need to get a pregnancy test. If you ARE pregnant, you'll have to learn how to deal with that as soon as possible. If you're not, that's one stress gone.



You sound like a good friend - is your mother aware that she is pregnant? If she is, you can explain that to her and she may be slightly more sympathetic. Also, explain some of this to her - if she thinks that the only stress in a teen's life is school, she is crazy. Tell her about self-esteem, body image, friends, etc. Good luck!
The only way your mother will know about any other issues in your life is you open up your mouth and say something!!!!!!!



The over all plan is; when a child is in school - there should be no stress. You're to enjoy your childhood, however, if you go off and do something really stupid (possibly getting pregnant) then you've created the stress yourself.



You're supposed to live a stress free life until you become an adult - then you have adult responsibilities.



Enjoy your childhood, listen to your mother and talk with her more.................
first of all you need to breath once in a while. trust me the oxygen flow helps. now, if you are pregnant and you already have a friend that is you can help each other to take some stress off. keep each other calm. then tell your mom about your friend. if you are pregnant you need to tell your mom about that too as soon as you know FOR SURE. if you dont want extra stress from being in a crap load of trouble dont say anything about you until you are sure you're pregnant. if you cant talk to your mom about it don't. just let her believe that she knows everything. talk to your friends as much as you can and be a teenager. get out and have some fun that will take your mind off of everything else (i wouldn't suggest anything that has to do with sex though) good luck!



- and remember to BREATH!!!

Does anyone know of a good way to relieve stress?

I've had something happen this past week that is causing me to stress out big time. It's over with now, but I keep have this nagging fear that something will happen again before I can get it settled. It's financial problems. My muscles are stiff, I have had a lot of headaches and I'm not sleeping right. Can anyone recomend anything natural or medical wise that can help me relax. I hear yoga is good and I try and read but sometimes that doesn't work. Are there any vitamins or medications that can help.



I'm trying to get into my doctor but can't till next week. I already have social anxiety and I'm borderline depression. I already feel like I'm going to be fully into depression if these feelings don't go away.



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Sex, lol...but seriously, stop for a minute and take a deep breath. Think...ok, so you have some financial difficulties..But look at what is going right in your life. This is one thing that happened, and you will get over it and make it through. It is not the end of the world. Bad things happen everyday, but you have the power within yourself to not let it ruin your health and mental well being. You need to take control of the situation, do what you can to resolve it, and just know that you have done what you can. I am not saying to blow it off, but you need to stop and think, what good does getting totally freaked out do you? It just adds to the problem. I once had my electricity shut off during a hard time in my life, and I started to flip out, but I calmed down and thought to myself, that I will get through this, there are people and agencies out there to help me and I won't impair myslef with anxiety and stress. So please, calm down, and try to focus. If you want to discuss this further, email me shelly289909@yahoo.com. I would be glad to help try and find some resources for you to help in this situation. Good luck.



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Start doing brisk walks or a good bicycle ride.
pray....pray...and pray some more.... Good luck
Yoga and meditation. And spend some time doing things that you really enjoy - I rent an armload of comedies when life gets tough.



The meditation helps a lot...try it if you never have
Go to a spa and get pampered: massage, facial, pedicure, manicure, and body wrap. If not, try going to the gym. Sweating releases endorphins which reduce stress and weight gain associated with stress.
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yeah....i feel that way a lot sometimes.....it helps to talk it out...it also helps to turn on documentarys about 9/11 or something else tragic so you get a handle on how small your problems really are. Also....do things like play literati in yahoo games to keep your mind busy
Exercise!



Hope you feel better soon.
excersize in any shape or form....I jog 5 km's 4 times a week and its a life saver (literally). in the beginning I HATED it but I now enjoy it!and I sleep so much better on the nights that I have jogged. It is a brilliant and healthy stress reliever. The fact that it helps sleep is GREAT cos when I'm borderline depressed / anxious lack of sleep is what often pushes me over the edge! so this is great cos it helps sleep.
How about taking a long hot bath with soft music playing on the background.



Go hiking on natural trail, completely take your mind off where you are.



Take some Vitamin C and D. They are supposely help.



Go outdoor and soak up some sun, even it is winter, it has positive effects.



Go out with your friends and just have some casual talks.
go for brisk walks 30mins everyday,eat fresh vegetablesand fruit and take some multi-vitamins
Get into the pool, start gym get some activiting going that works your body. Start a regular gym set every day nothing that is to tough. Healthy eating and plenty of water. Your body will be back in rythm in no time.
masturbation works for me
exercising is good. It takes your mind of things. Or go some relaxation techniques. Think of something like your cat for instance or whatever makes you happy. Breath in and out and don't think of anything else. It helps me.
Pray to God - Drink Wheatgrass - Call your best freind - And keep saying the word P us sy. You will find humor in your life. I promise.



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exercising makes me feel in the right place. walking or running or going to a gym. ill go on the elliptical machine. eat healthy foods that taste good. doing these things makes me feel like im doing something great for myself %26amp; thats a wonderful feeling for me. like i know that im only improving myself even in a time fo stress. its true that exercize relaxes your body. find some time to stretch even for 15 minutes. %26amp; listen to some good music. whatever kind you like. they say mozart will relax the mind. blast some country! or peppy music that will make you feel energized! read chuck norris jokes! haha thats always a beautiful remedy for me. get a pedicure or manicure. anything that will benefit you %26amp; make you feel good is a great stress reliever. %26amp; good luck! best wishes :D
Take the time to pamper yourself, if only for a hour or so. Drink some Chamomile tea and take a bath with a little lavender bath oil. Both relieve stress and tension naturally.
Meditation.



Seriously.



You find a quiet place that no one or anything will bother you and you start at your toes and relax them. All the way. Don't start relaxing your calves untill your toes are for sure, totally relaxed.



Then you keep moving up your body one muscle at a time.



And anything that pops into your head you need to put it in a mental bag or door or whatever works for you and just get rid of it.



I always thought that this kind of stuff was hokey but it really honestly does work.



I use it for stress and pain management.



Good luck and just remember...it could always be worse.



There is someone out there that doesn't have any fingers to type to Y Answers with. and more less fortunate...



You get the idea..



so, take a load off and meditate.
sleep, exercize, stretching, healthy eating, relaxing (hot bath, movie night, whatever). it differs for everybody though, really. i read amusing books or do something useful and relatively brainless with my hands. raking leaves is good.
Wendy we have always had vacations to relieve stress but since you find the stress is financial you may have to stay home. Maybe just take time off work. I think it is silly to make a loan when you stress so easily. Budget the money and be safe. you can IM me if you wish to.
As far as financial stress you can over come that. You do have to take action right away. If you have lots of bill, may be contact your creditors to work out a lower payment plan or reduce some of the interest you pay evey month. Get rid of the credit card you don't need. Keep a couple for emergnecy, like one gas card and one bank credit card with lower interest. on the gas card make sure to pay every month don't carry balance, the interest on those are high. You could also seek an advice from credit



counslers in your area which are non -profit not the one for profit. There are losts of them which advertise as non- profit. The second thing is pay your self first every month means try to save for rainy day, you can start small. Make a budget which can help you where is your money goes. Pay the smallest balance first, when that one is paid, apply that payment to pay off the next lower bill and so on. You buy what you need not what you want. means food,rent, some cloth. Freeze your buying for a whole year. Write down what you spend. As far as you mental health seek a counsler right away. The best thing you can do is walk, think positive, take control of your finance. If you can do it take a part time job where you can bring extra cash to pay off your debt. check this site info.



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Firstly donot run away from the problem. Concentrate on problem from where it has arrived ,If you will skip the problem then such physical and mental abnormilities are bound to happen,and some other helps like medicine yoga etc can help you to relax to some extent only



So locate the root cause of ur problem and try to slove it with the help of experts , thinking with cool mind rather than frustation.



Wish u all the best , Be positive.



Wish u all the best and soon u will be all right.
just quit stressing bills cant eat you and that is what you have to tell yourself,,,You do the best you can and that is all you can do.Stress is a mental thing. Take charge of you self and pray every time you fill the way you fill whisper Jesus name overr and ove r in your mind as much as it takes for it to go away. Trust me it works...Meds makes this worse in the long run.I know because I have been their.If you have children it will effect them also that is why you have to take control of your self.Do something for your self..The things you don't like make a change...And brighten your life..Fill it with joy and laughter and fun...Fear is what causes what is going own.You should not be fearing nothing or know one..Live and be happy.You know what will make you happy. What ever it is make a change.Do the opposite of what you have been doing God bless you as we speak...Praying will help you the most because it gives you strenght to get through everything.....Merry Christmas And place a smile own your face
I used to be like that for everything. Always filled with anxiety and depression would oppress me whenever something went wrong(which was often).



Prayer is what helped me big time. Read "Power of a Praying Woman" by stormie omartian. God brought so much peace,love,joy and confidence that I cant describe how much. Big turn around.



I pray the best for you!



God Bless!
Yup, exercise would be a good answer but how can you meditate when you have this thing nagging at the back of your mind?



I suggest you try a boxing exercise regimen. Its really good and it takes out my anger on the issues that nag on me. Its great exercise and outlet for anger so i dont feel stressed. after the exercise i go to the spa for some relaxation...
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definatly, maybe
I recently just saw "Be Kind, Rewind."
bucket list
Vantage Point
i am legend
Sweeny Todd
Cloverfield



gave me a bit of a headache.
SHUTTER i just saw it yesterday..not so good
definitely, maybe
Horton Hears A Who but i'm hoping to go see Meet The Browns cuz it jus came to the theatures yesterday.
The Bourne Ultimatum..



yeyeah!
Drillbit Taylor.
27 dress
There will be blood
step up 2 and stop lost and shutter
I took my friends children to she BEES...Love, honey
pirates 3.
Captivity, that was the worst ever, I haven't gone sense of fear that I will waste my money.
Fools Gold and it was very entertaining...the only way it could have been any better is if Matthew would have been in the nude all through the movie...of course, then I wouldn't have been able to keep up with the plot...but, what the hey...what's good is GOOD...lol...
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miss pettigrew lives for a day.....it was really good =)
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What is the best movie quality theater in Gainesville, FL?

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You got the wrong forum! This is Home Theater - ELECTRONICS. Try posting in one of the sub-forums in the Entertainment and Music forum,.

Who or what determines how long a movie will stay at the theater?

Is it a set period of time or does it just depend on how well the movie does? Some movies seem to stay at the theater forever, while some are gone in a week it seems.



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Simply how well the movie pulls in dollars.



The bad ones are gone quickly. They did not carry good word-of-mouth or receive good reviews (by the way, as for the dumb, often-heard, remark "I never listen to the critics", a review is a review, whether it comes from your best friend or a syndicated columnist).



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it all depends on the ratings!

What is the greatest musical ever made? (movie not theater)?

ooo - good question. Erm.....I can't decide between On The Town, Singin In the Rain and Guys %26amp; Dolls. Think Guys %26amp; Dolls may just have it - the dialogue is fab and Marlon Brando crooning is rather good too - though I believe he couldn't sing more than a line before going out of tune so they had to record it one line at a time and splice it together, so if you listen to the song you never hear him take a breath..lol



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wizard of oz.



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Chicago
Oklahoma
XANADU*******OLIVIA NEWTON JOHN, GENE KELLY, AND ELO !!!!!!
chicago..
Rent, hands down. If you saw this movie and weren't moved and impressed beyond belief then I don't know who you are.
The 'South Park' movie.
RENT!! It is one of my favorite musicals.
South Park or Moulin Rouge
Rent, Cats and Chicago. They really out did themselves in the maing of those and the actors were even better!
Hedwig and the angry inch!



The most rocking, touching musical ever! If you want learn the orgins of love, watch it!
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Managing stress?

It's exam week for me, and my first exam is tomorrow.



This whole week I've been extremely nervous... like you know that feeling that you get in your heart when you're really anxious, and it sort of spreads down to your legs? If not, then maybe I'm just crazy.



I've been studying literally for almost 24 hours a day (with the exception of 2 hours of sleep a night... and no, I can't sleep more. I have biology, chemistry, and Christian morality (bird course, but still counts) to cram.) What can I do to cope with stress other than sleep? Can't cut down on the coffee either... you know, with the whole 2 hours of sleep thing.



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you can:



try meditating



do some yoga stretches



go out and exercise



listen to some relaxing music



get a massage



soak in a tub or jacuzzi for a while



paint/draw/write- do something creative to take your mind off of your stressful schedule



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DEEP BREATHING



breathe in for four seconds



hold for two



exhale for four more seconds



repeat as needed

 
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