I've been dating my man for around a year and a half now. And for the past year he has been working third shift. I really didn't mind it in the begining because he had energy most of the time. Now it seems like all he wants to do is sleep. I can understand, he's tired. But when its the weekend and he doesn't have to work and i want to have some "us" time we rarely do anything. Just the other Friday night he told me to come wake him up from his nap at a certain time and when i got there he still wanted to sleep a while. So i let him. I stayed there for 4 and a half hours watching tv while he slept because i kept hoping that he would want to wake up soon...but he didn't. I tried to wake him up to say goodnight but he didn't even budge. He didn't even notice i left. All the stress of it is really piling up...I'm getting to the point of wanting to cuss him out and cry every time we do this. I just don't know what to do at this point.
The stress is begining to pile up on me....?movie theater
He obviously doesn't want to make time for you...so there you go.
The stress is begining to pile up on me....?tickets opera theater
tell him how much its bothering you. be honest. tell him your not happy with him because of this..most of all ask god for help! pray and pray! think heavenly not ungodly
maybe its time you actually did go off on him. if thats the only way he might get the picture
tell him how you feel
Next time the both of you are awake at the same time, tell him that you two need to talk seriously. You two must be getting some 'together' time in other matters, why not use the after play time to discuss how you feel. If he still don't want to try and work things out, then you may have to give some thought to moving on to a same shift relationship for yourself, right now you like two people who are always trying to catch each other, yet are always just a few moments too late doing it.
talk to him and tell him that it bothers you and you want to spend time with him. if he still decides to sleep and not care after that then you shouldnt stay with him.
Did you know that people that work 3rd shift for prolonged periods of time have much higher rates of depression, fatigue, and illness? A lot of people can function working that shift regularly, but most will admit that they are never totally with the program.
It might be a good time to discuss your relationship together, him going in for a thorough checkup, and possibly changing shifts.
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